i've been thinking alot about words...some are used in haste, carelessly, w/o much thought...and some are spoken with care, with love, or hurt ... unfortunately, words once spoken cannot be retracted...we may try to clarify or restate our position - but what is said, is said.
i am from a family of 'wordies'!! my g-grandma, grandma, mom, uncle, sisters - teachers, authors - they know how to put words together creatively, spontaneously, fitly! what i miss most about my mom, gone now for 5 years - are her words. her cheerful voice on the other end of the line, teasing, caring, cajoling. she was our biggest cheerleader - i miss that most in my life - a mom to send/speak words of encouragement, wisdom and advice, love.
there is a proverb: 'a word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver' (proverbs 25:11). fitly: an adverb which describes how the 'word' is spoken - in a suitable, proper manner... i'm not saying we have to speak shakespearean! but speaking love. truth. comfort. in an appropriate way and time.
so many times, my soul is hungry for someone to say a word -that reaches to me deeply, feeds me, cheer me!! and oh so many times, i have hoped to be the one to say the 'word' that would be just what somebody wants and needs to hear... and i know i've failed, been too busy, consumed, or not knowing what to say - i avoid... i'm sorry!
so i am feeling the challenge. going to try to be more aware! gonna (try) to make the most of a word!
keep watching - today, i'm starting a new line of resin 'dictionary word' charms... i think they are going to be keepers!!